Share Your Wisdom

This blog is dedicated to acquiring tips and tricks from REAL WOMEN that have become experts in making the events of their lives extraordinary. This wisdom will be shared in the event-planning book I am writing called "Your Life and Times."

You're an event planner and probably don't even realize it! Did you ever direct your high school play or organize a school dance; plan a baby shower for your college roommate; volunteer to host the 3rd grade class Valentine's Day party; have a birthday party for your kids; organize a fundraiser for a sick friend; plan a company golf outing; serve as a scout leader or a Sunday School teacher; host a block party for the neighborhood; plan your parent's 50th wedding anniversary? If so, your experiences and your voice is what will make this book useful, unique and best of all fun to read.

Time-savers, planning tips, favorite websites, funny stories, or how you averted disaster on a special day - anything goes! But please only post what you are willing to share with the world - it could end up in the book!


Thursday, February 10

TIPS FOR BEATING PROCRASTINATION

Whether you’re planning a wedding, completing an assignment for school or work, researching your family genealogy, or facing any task that seems overwhelming, it is easy for procrastination to rear its ugly head, jeopardizing the successful completion of the project. Here are five things you can do to fight the urge to procrastinate:

1. BREAK THE TASK INTO SMALLER PARTS, AND COMPLETE THE TOUGHEST PARTS FIRST

Q. How do you eat an elephant? A. One bite at a time! This old African proverb says it best. The best way to tackle any project is to break it down into reasonable tasks that can be completed in their entirety and crossed off your list. Procrastinators typically will save the most unpleasant tasks for last, but all that does is add to the pressure as deadlines approach and the biggest 'bite' is still staring them in the face. Stress and anxiety levels will decrease once the most unpleasant tasks are resolved.


2. ELIMINATE DISTRACTIONS

It is crucial that you schedule time on your calendar to work exclusively on your project. If you have too many distractions where you are, find a place where the distractions are reduced and you can focus on the task at hand.


3. FIGHT THE URGE TO BE PERFECT

Many times it's the fear of failure or not measuring up to self-imposed standards that can paralyze us into either delaying a task or avoiding it altogether. Fight the inner voice telling you that perfection is required and learn to celebrate your successes.

4. LEARN YOUR LIMITS

Before you say yes to any new project or task, examine your schedule, consider the time realistically necessary to do the task, and sleep on it before you decide to get involved.

5. GET A CHECKUP

If procrastination is disrupting your every day life, consider speaking to a professional about an underlying health issue that may exist, such as depression or attention deficit disorder.